Trial of Ka'b Ibn Malik Radhi 
                      Allahu Anhu
                    Some of the Muslims who had 
                      stayed behind in the expedition of Tabuk, without a valid 
                      reason, were Ka'b Ibn Malik, Murara Ibn al-Rab'i and Hilal 
                      Ibn Umayya Radhi Allahu Anhum. All of them had accepted 
                      Islam in the earlier stages and undergone hardships for 
                      the sake of their faith. Murara Ibn al-Rab'i and Hilal Ibn 
                      Umayya Radhi Allahu Anhuma had also taken part in the battle 
                      of Badr. Actually, none of them had ever been lax in accompanying 
                      the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam in the previous battles. 
                      Their failure to do so in the expedition of Tabuk could 
                      have been brought about only by divine will, which perhaps 
                      wanted to set another severe trial to test the strength 
                      of their faith for the benefit of coming generations. They 
                      had been held back on this occasion partly on account of 
                      indecision and partly because of their placing reliance 
                      on worldly means. They had not given thought to the urgency 
                      of the matter as it deserved. Ka'b Ibn Malik Radhi Allahu 
                      Anhu explained : 
                    "Every day I would go 
                      out to get ready for the journey so that I might leave with 
                      them, but I would come back not having done anything. I 
                      would say to myself: 'I can do that whenever I want to', 
                      but continued procrastinating until the time for departure 
                      came and the Prophet of Allah left with the Muslims. I had 
                      still not made the necessary preparations. I thought that 
                      I could go after a day or two and then join them. I went 
                      to make preparations after they had left but again returned 
                      without having done what was necessary. Day after day passed 
                      until I became sluggish while the army had gone far ahead 
                      at full speed. I still thought of leaving Madinah to overtake 
                      them and I wish that I had done so, but I did not."
                    Ka'b Radhi Allahu Anhu explains 
                      what transpired after the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam 
                      returned from Tabuk : 
                    "Those who had stayed 
                      behind came and began to make excuses with oaths. There 
                      were about eighty of them and the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi 
                      Wasallam accepted their pleas, administered oaths to them 
                      and asked divine forgiveness for them, leaving what they 
                      had concealed in their hearts to Allah. Then I came and 
                      greeted him and he smiled like one who is angry. He said: 
                      'Come nearer.' I went and sat before him. Then he asked: 
                      'What kept you back? Did you not purchase a conveyance?' 
                      I replied: 'True to Allah, it was exactly so, 0 Prophet 
                      of Allah. Were I sitting with anyone else in the world I 
                      would have thought of offering some excuse for saving myself 
                      from his anger for I know how to argue and justify myself 
                      but, true to Allah, I know that if I were to satisfy you 
                      by telling a lie, Allah will soon make you angry with me. 
                      And if I displease you now by telling the truth, I hope 
                      that Allah would excuse me in the end. Honest to Allah, 
                      I have no excuse at all and I was never stronger and richer 
                      than when I stayed behind.' "
                    The hour of trial had come. 
                      The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam forbade everyone 
                      to speak to the three who had spoken the truth. Such were 
                      those Muslims, who knew nothing but to listen and obey the 
                      Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, that not even the members 
                      of their own families would address a word to these men. 
                      All the three felt forsaken and abandoned, as if they were 
                      strangers in an alien country. They endured it for fifty 
                      nights. Murara Ibn al-Rab'i and Hilal Ibn Umayya shut themselves 
                      up in their houses, lamenting and shedding tears all the 
                      while. Ka'b Ibn Malik Radhi Allahu Anhu was, however, young 
                      and bustling. He used to join in congregational prayers 
                      with the others and went to the market, but nobody seemed 
                      willing to talk to him.
                    But this isolation did not 
                      increase the distance between them and the Prophet of Allah 
                      nor was there any decrease in the loving regard that the 
                      Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam had for them. The admonition 
                      by the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam rather gave rise 
                      to a more intense desire in them to regain his affection. 
                      
                    Ka'b Radhi Allahu Anhu explained 
                      : "I would go to the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam 
                      and greet him when he sat with others after the prayer, 
                      thinking whether his lips had moved in returning my greeting 
                      or not. Then I would pray near him and see him with half 
                      an eye. I marked that he fastened his eyes on me when I 
                      was busy in prayers but he turned away from me as soon as 
                      I tried to take a look at him." 
                    The wide world seemed to have 
                      closed in on these men. Ka'b Radhi Allahu Anhu relates about 
                      the behaviour of one whom he considered to be his inseparable 
                      friend: "When the harshness of the people became unbearable, 
                      I scaled the wall of Abu Qatada's Radhi Allahu Anhu orchard 
                      and went to him. He was my cousin and I loved him dearly. 
                      I greeted him, but, by Allah, he did not even return my 
                      greeting. I said: '0 Abu Qatada, I beseech you 
                      by Allah, do you not know that I love Allah and His Prophet 
                      Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam? But he still kept quiet, so 
                      I repeated my question. He remained silent for a while and 
                      then said : 'Allah and His Prophet know best. At that my 
                      eyes gave way to tears and I jumped over the wall to go 
                      back."
                    The ordeal, however, did not 
                      come to a close at that. The ban was extended to their families 
                      and the three were ordered to separate themselves from their 
                      wives, without divorcing them. All of them obediently yielded 
                      to the command.
                    The faith of Ka'b Radhi Allahu 
                      Anhu was brought to a more delicate and crucial test when 
                      the king of Ghassan tried to allure him. He was the ruler 
                      of a kingdom that had exercised a deep influence upon the 
                      Arabs. A courier of the king contacted Ka'b Radhi Allahu 
                      Anhu when the Prophet's Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam aloofness 
                      and the indifference of the people towards him had become 
                      agonising enough to drive him mad. The courier delivered 
                      a letter to him from the king in which he had written : 
                      "We have learnt that your master has treated you badly. 
                      Allah has not destined you to be humiliated, so come to 
                      us and we shall deal kindly with you."
                    Ka'b Radhi Allahu Anhu regarded 
                      the letter as a challenge to his integrity and love for 
                      Allah and His Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. He took 
                      the letter to an oven and burnt it.
                    Finally, their test ended. 
                      None of the three had faulted. A revelation came from Allah 
                      illustrating their personal example to make it a general 
                      lesson for all time to come. They had demonstrated that 
                      they could only find solace and refuge in Allah and His 
                      Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. In their own souls they 
                      had a feeling of constraint, but they did not falter from 
                      the straight path. The revelation showed that whatever suffering 
                      and hardships they had endured had raised their degree in 
                      the spiritual world :
                    "Allah has forgiven the 
                      Prophet, the Muhajireen and the Ansaar who followed him 
                      in the time of difficulty, after the hearts of a party of 
                      them had almost deviated. Then He accepted their repentance. 
                      Certainly, He is to them full of Kindness, Most Merciful. And the three also (did 
                      He forgive) who were left behind, when the earth, vast as 
                      it is, was narrowed for them, and their own souls were straitened 
                      to them till they thought that there is no fleeing from 
                      Allah except towards Him. Then He forgave them that they 
                      might turn repentant to Him. Verily, He is the One who accepts 
                      repentance, Most Merciful." (Surah Tawbah, Verse 117-118) 
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